This is a digest of messages posted to: Sex & Relationships.Sexuality: Friends TalkingBacheloritis...Why am I single?Initial Message Posted by: gdp_good Date: Sep 22, 2009.OK, I haven't had a girlfriend in over 5 yrs and Im only 22 yrs old. I know this is a serious problem. I don't know what it is, I think of myself as a highly eligible bachelor, so why don't I have a girl. I find myself thinking about it a lot, like "whats wrong with me"? I see other people in relationships ad can't see why Im not in one (or more than one, kidding). When I was younger, girls used to be all over me, it was like I didnt have to chase them. I guess along the transition of the females stop chasing and guys starting, I lost the ability or I never had it. When people meet me and have a
chase to sit down with me, they always end up asking "so where is your girlfriend" or make some reference to me having one. Its kind of pressuring because people expect me to have a girlfriend and I honestly do want one. I think Im an qualified bachelor (lol, like Im applying for a job or something). Im currently in school getting my BA in accounting; I'm good with people; I co-own a marketing company; I'm a conscious person; I'm artistic; I have sense of humor; and I see a bright future for myself. There is also the fact that I don't like lying to women to make them do what I want, I know that this is probably an excuse, but its still true. Ive noticed that over the years I have lost touch with my female friends and now Im down to one. I think I lost the capability to maintain a female friend without any sexual interest. But I would love to have a neutral female friend...I tried an experiment a couple of years ago. I was talking to a type of female that I wouldnt
normally talk to, in that way, for shallow reasons that I wouldnt usually act upon. I would tell her simple lies like, where I was; what I was doing; where I was going; who I was with; what I had plans on doing; and things like that. I found that she was really interested. She was "digging" me. I would use situations and things in her life to influence the way she felt about herself and me. Eventually I got what I wanted. There was another instance where I was talking to this girl and I would just tell her what she wanted to hear, but didnt come right out and say it. I even tried this on a female friend...With her it was different because with female friends I have the tendency to start having feelings when I get super comfortable with them, but she didn't feel the same way. So I used those tricks to make her like me. It was crazy, I would tell those same little lies and she started having feelings for me! I mean damn, do I have to lie to every girl to get them interested, c
ant I just be myself?! Sometimes I think its because Im not charming enough or not saying the right things, but I am a charming person but only when I totally comfortable. Then it comes natural. I also find myself attracted to older females, not "old" just older (by several years). I dont know its just something about them...I know its a social and a confidence thing that I just haven't learned over the years. Somehow through my self awareness project, I didnt learn a key part of survival...the chase. How to get a girl attracted to you...No scratch that, I know how to attract females but I cant make myself do them because I feel like I would be deceiving them and myself. It wouldnt be truthful. I lose my confidence sometimes because of it, I think I just put too much thought into it. I don't know what to do, but obviously whatever Ive been doing wasn't working so Im open to trying something new. The question all comes down to: WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRLFIREND?
Can you give me some advice to my situation? Please use some empathy, as it will make this easier. Please help! Thanks in advanced.
Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #1: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: mhtyler2 Date: Sep 22, 2009.Honestly gdp, did you even read your own message? In the second paragraph you assure us that you don't like lying or trying to manipulate women, and in the third paragraph you brag about your ability to lie to women and manipulate them. You seem to be at a loss because women aren't chasing you, and all your efforts with them seem to involve dishonesty. In your self awareness project, you seem to have forgotten the most important part; to actually _be_ self aware. That means to examine who you are, what your values are, how you behave, what you think and why. Its not a destinati
on, its a journey. Who is gdp_good? Right now I will tell you he doesn't seem to me to be someone I much like: he lies, he manipulates, and he brags about it. He also brags about what a catch he is, and can't figure out why women don't get it. Here is a tip for you: start from scratch. Instead of making the theme of your self awareness project how to get women, why not make it: Who am I now, and who do I want to be? Start taking a look at your values. Honesty would be a good place to start. A little humility would help too. Try to become a better person. Right now I think women would be smart to steer well clear of you. Take this seriously son, and I would suggest you find a mentor that you respect that can advise you on personal choices and character.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #2: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: F
CL Date: Sep 22, 2009."WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRLFIREND? " Because any sane, relatively intelligent female can probably see right through you. Has it ever occurred to you that what women want is for a man to want to be with them for what they are and not for what they represent? Advice? Sure ... start treating women like they were part of the same species as yourself. Talk to them like you'd like to be talked to. Share with them. Don't expect them to be overwhelmed by your starry future. Above all, try to accept that what a teenager will put up with, a mature woman may not ... Finally, take a long look at your approach. Refer to women as "women" not as "females" for instance. Calling women "females" reduces them to their reproductive functions ... is that how you see them? Receptacles for sex? If not then change your attitude ... You have high expectations. Remember that the women that you would like to be around probably have t
oo...Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #3: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: 3point14 Date: Sep 22, 2009.I have one word for you. Smug.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #4: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 22, 2009.I almost didn't even respond to your post because when I got done reading it, I was angry. Surely you can't be serious. I'm going to put this as politely as I can. Let's just say that you come across as being extremely arrogant and that's putting it mildly. Women don't want to go out with someone who thinks he's "God's gift to women". I think you need to completely change your attitude about women and learn to treat them with respect. When you do that, you'll be able to get a girlfriend. You're not in h
igh school anymore so stop acting like it. It's time to grow up. DonnaBacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #5: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: luvmy2babiesmuch Date: Sep 22, 2009.I agree with the others.. your too busy trying to figure out what makes others tick, and your putting time and energy into that, when you should be focusing on YOU, see what you want, who you are really, be a good, honest, moral person, and women, the kind of ladies that you really hope to attract, will be attracted to you! Most people are looking for a fun to be around, honest, loyal, goal oriented, sucessful family oriented person. stop trying to play women, just focus on how to be a better person, get some hobbies, enjoy life, you are very young.. you'll get a girl with the same hobbies as you, and who enjoys the company of the "real" you, and it will just gel as a couple.crotchless pantiescrotchless pantiesMessage #12: crotchless panties Posted by: crazyfoot40 Date: Sep 22, 2009.luvmy2babies...YOU are just HOT! As far as I am concerned, you are what every man wants...but that's just my opinion.
TomSexuality: Friends TalkingDisappearing TesticlesInitial Message Posted by: culligan4 Date: Sep 22, 2009.I have always wondered why my body performs in this way. When I have sex, whether it be masturbation or partner sex, my testicles seem to be sucked up(disappear) inside my body. They don't hurt or
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Sex & Relationships.Sexuality: Friends TalkingBacheloritis...Why am I single?Initial Message Posted by: gdp_good Date: Sep 22, 2009.OK, I haven't had a girlfriend in over 5 yrs and Im only 22 yrs old. I know this is a serious problem. I don't know what it is, I think of myself as a highly eligible bachelor, so why don't I have a girl. I find myself thinking about it a lot, like "whats wrong with me"? I see other people in relationships ad can't see why Im not in one (or more than one, kidding). When I was younger, girls used to be all over me, it was like I didnt have to chase them. I guess along the transition of the females stop chasing and guys starting, I lost the ability or I never had it. When people meet me and have a
chase to sit down with me, they always end up asking "so where is your girlfriend" or make some reference to me having one. Its kind of pressuring because people expect me to have a girlfriend and I honestly do want one. I think Im an qualified bachelor (lol, like Im applying for a job or something). Im currently in school getting my BA in accounting; I'm good with people; I co-own a marketing company; I'm a conscious person; I'm artistic; I have sense of humor; and I see a bright future for myself. There is also the fact that I don't like lying to women to make them do what I want, I know that this is probably an excuse, but its still true. Ive noticed that over the years I have lost touch with my female friends and now Im down to one. I think I lost the capability to maintain a female friend without any sexual interest. But I would love to have a neutral female friend...I tried an experiment a couple of years ago. I was talking to a type of female that I wouldnt
normally talk to, in that way, for shallow reasons that I wouldnt usually act upon. I would tell her simple lies like, where I was; what I was doing; where I was going; who I was with; what I had plans on doing; and things like that. I found that she was really interested. She was "digging" me. I would use situations and things in her life to influence the way she felt about herself and me. Eventually I got what I wanted. There was another instance where I was talking to this girl and I would just tell her what she wanted to hear, but didnt come right out and say it. I even tried this on a female friend...With her it was different because with female friends I have the tendency to start having feelings when I get super comfortable with them, but she didn't feel the same way. So I used those tricks to make her like me. It was crazy, I would tell those same little lies and she started having feelings for me! I mean damn, do I have to lie to every girl to get them interested, c
ant I just be myself?! Sometimes I think its because Im not charming enough or not saying the right things, but I am a charming person but only when I totally comfortable. Then it comes natural. I also find myself attracted to older females, not "old" just older (by several years). I dont know its just something about them...I know its a social and a confidence thing that I just haven't learned over the years. Somehow through my self awareness project, I didnt learn a key part of survival...the chase. How to get a girl attracted to you...No scratch that, I know how to attract females but I cant make myself do them because I feel like I would be deceiving them and myself. It wouldnt be truthful. I lose my confidence sometimes because of it, I think I just put too much thought into it. I don't know what to do, but obviously whatever Ive been doing wasn't working so Im open to trying something new. The question all comes down to: WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRLFIREND?
Can you give me some advice to my situation? Please use some empathy, as it will make this easier. Please help! Thanks in advanced.
Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #1: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: mhtyler2 Date: Sep 22, 2009.Honestly gdp, did you even read your own message? In the second paragraph you assure us that you don't like lying or trying to manipulate women, and in the third paragraph you brag about your ability to lie to women and manipulate them. You seem to be at a loss because women aren't chasing you, and all your efforts with them seem to involve dishonesty. In your self awareness project, you seem to have forgotten the most important part; to actually _be_ self aware. That means to examine who you are, what your values are, how you behave, what you think and why. Its not a destinati
on, its a journey. Who is gdp_good? Right now I will tell you he doesn't seem to me to be someone I much like: he lies, he manipulates, and he brags about it. He also brags about what a catch he is, and can't figure out why women don't get it. Here is a tip for you: start from scratch. Instead of making the theme of your self awareness project how to get women, why not make it: Who am I now, and who do I want to be? Start taking a look at your values. Honesty would be a good place to start. A little humility would help too. Try to become a better person. Right now I think women would be smart to steer well clear of you. Take this seriously son, and I would suggest you find a mentor that you respect that can advise you on personal choices and character.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #2: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: F
CL Date: Sep 22, 2009."WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRLFIREND? " Because any sane, relatively intelligent female can probably see right through you. Has it ever occurred to you that what women want is for a man to want to be with them for what they are and not for what they represent? Advice? Sure ... start treating women like they were part of the same species as yourself. Talk to them like you'd like to be talked to. Share with them. Don't expect them to be overwhelmed by your starry future. Above all, try to accept that what a teenager will put up with, a mature woman may not ... Finally, take a long look at your approach. Refer to women as "women" not as "females" for instance. Calling women "females" reduces them to their reproductive functions ... is that how you see them? Receptacles for sex? If not then change your attitude ... You have high expectations. Remember that the women that you would like to be around probably have t
oo...Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #3: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: 3point14 Date: Sep 22, 2009.I have one word for you. Smug.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #4: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 22, 2009.I almost didn't even respond to your post because when I got done reading it, I was angry. Surely you can't be serious. I'm going to put this as politely as I can. Let's just say that you come across as being extremely arrogant and that's putting it mildly. Women don't want to go out with someone who thinks he's "God's gift to women". I think you need to completely change your attitude about women and learn to treat them with respect. When you do that, you'll be able to get a girlfriend. You're not in h
igh school anymore so stop acting like it. It's time to grow up. DonnaBacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #5: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: luvmy2babiesmuch Date: Sep 22, 2009.I agree with the others.. your too busy trying to figure out what makes others tick, and your putting time and energy into that, when you should be focusing on YOU, see what you want, who you are really, be a good, honest, moral person, and women, the kind of ladies that you really hope to attract, will be attracted to you! Most people are looking for a fun to be around, honest, loyal, goal oriented, sucessful family oriented person. stop trying to play women, just focus on how to be a better person, get some hobbies, enjoy life, you are very young.. you'll get a girl with the same hobbies as you, and who enjoys the company of the "real" you, and it will just gel as a couple.crotchless pantiescrotchless pantiesMessage #12: crotchless panties Posted by: crazyfoot40 Date: Sep 22, 2009.luvmy2babies...YOU are just HOT! As far as I am concerned, you are what every man wants...but that's just my opinion.
TomSexuality: Friends TalkingDisappearing TesticlesInitial Message Posted by: culligan4 Date: Sep 22, 2009.I have always wondered why my body performs in this way. When I have sex, whether it be masturbation or partner sex, my testicles seem to be sucked up(disappear) inside my body. They don't hurt or
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Sexuality: Friends Talking.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #6: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: randomguy7 Date: Sep 23, 2009.All I can say is be yourself, but also be true to yourself.
As you can see, the ladies don't like someone that is arrogant and the like.
I'm the same age as you and I am single as well, I also don't give into what others expect of me and If I find someone then so be it. Meanwhile, I cannot force anything upon me that will most likely not work out. Always remember that we all end up the same in the long run.
Best of luck in finding inner peace and not letting outside forces mess with who you are.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #7: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: Camille1967 Date: Sep 23, 2009.I somewhat agree with the other posters, but I think there is more to it.
I want to give you the benefit of the doubt, and think that maybe what seems like "pompousness" (is that even a word? ) may just be the lack of diplomacy in trying to be _object_ive in describing yourself on a post. One thing that perplexes me is your statement of not having had a girl friend for 5 years. That would be since you were 17, now you are 22. This is a very transitional time in life: dating at 17 and at 22 are two different things. At 17 you are a child, dating it is little more than a childhood game, at 22 many people are to be considered adults, dating could be the beginning of a lifetime relationship. Even if it is not, it is still a more serious form of interaction, and I do not mean only from a sexual point of view. So here are a few questions that may help us figure out your issue.
How do you meet girls? Do you have "pick-up lines", do you rehearse a routine? Understand that if you do, it usually shows, and women are very dependent on first impressions.
How do you ask a girl on a date? Where do you take her? What do you talk about? Is the conversation mostly on yourself, or do you try to get to know her? You may want to answer here and we can all try to find your answer, or just use this as a guide to do it yourself. Good luck, and sincerely, CamilleBacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #8: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: mhtyler2 Date: Sep 23, 2009.This young man has only had 2 other posts on WebMD and all of them were on the same day. If you read them, you get a sense of a very troubled young man. I don't think he's been back since his initial posts, but I hope he seeks some professional help.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #9: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: crazyfo
ot40 Date: Sep 23, 2009.Question Donna...If he started treating them with respect would that make him a phony? It doesn't sound like it would feel natural to him.
TomDisappearing TesticlesDisappearing TesticlesMessage #3: Disappearing Testicles Posted by: luvmy2babiesmuch Date: Sep 23, 2009.my DH testicles get hard, and are up close to his penis, and i like them when they are that way,, just feel good, the only time that they really almost disappear is when he duck hunts in like 0 weather.... then, it's funny!!!Disappearing TesticlesMessage #4: Disappearing Testicles Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.luvmy2babiesmuch, you are probably too young to remember this but did you see the Jerry Seinfeld show where George gets out of a cold swimming pool and he's all embarrassed about his "shrinkage"? That episode was hysterical! Donnadon't know how to get more !?!?don't know how to get more !?!?Message #7: don't know how to get more !?!? Posted by: culligan4 Date: Sep 23, 2009.You are welcome. We are all just hear to help and I am really glad that I could help. I would definitely like to hear how it turns out. Tantalize him. Get undressed really slow in front of him. Send him a suggestive email and than play coy with him. Most men love the chase and it turns them on even more when the pursuit goes on for a while. Put a suggestive note in his lunch. Be creative, once he realizes what is going on it could bring him around. I am making a lot of assumptions here but hopefully it will work out for you. Definitely let us know how you make out.DonnaDonnaMessage #3: Donna Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.The only incident he can recall that might have done it is that he was moving furniture at work and got slammed against a wall when his co-worker dropped his end. He hasn't had any other accidents. You say that you don't ejaculate either but that you do have a few drops that stay in your penis until you squeeze it out. This sounds like to me that you are still having the orgasm? My husband neither ejaculates or has the orgasm. Do you think he could have a blockage? DonnaDonnaMessage #4: Donna Posted by: shudnobettr Date: Sep 23, 2009.HI DONNA,
I'm about the same age. The prostrate starts to get bigger on us older guys and can do strange things. I asked my uroloigist about taking forever to orgasm or not at all, he said was it was part of getting past middle age. A enlarged prostrate or taking FLOMAX can cause the semen to go back in the bladder instead of exiting the penis which is "retrograde ejaculation" and a guy still orgasms that way, but not as intense. Doesn't sound like that's what he has .
Let's just say I'm not getting the treatment your'e giving him. He is a lucky, lucky man.
snbDonnaMessage #5: Donna Posted by: bogie11 Date: Sep 23, 2009.I doubt that he has a blockage. It's probably retrograde. In my case it's just a decrease in semen plus enlarged prostate. My orgasms are as intense as ever, if not more so. It has nothing to do with the amount of semen. And my orgasm is over long before I squeeze those few drops out. I relax for a few minutes and then go to the bathroom to release what's there. Has he had his prostate checked? That's very important for men over 40 to do at least once a year.DonnaMessage #6: Donna Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.He has his prostate checked once a year and I believe that's one of the tests they will do in October. I'm going to this doctor's appointment and I'm trying to remember everything to ask th
e doctor. His short term memory has not been very good ever since he had an aneurysm 3 years ago. He's completely recovered from the aneurysm but the short term memory is not what it used to be. I can tell him something and 15 minutes later he will forget what I told him and that didn't used to happen. If he still had the orgasm even without the ejaculate, I wouldn't be too concerned but he has neither. Donnanot sleepy after sex????????????not sleepy after sex????????????Message #7: not sleepy after sex???????????? Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.For me, it depends on how many orgasms and how intense the orgasms were. If I started off just really aroused to the point that I had several orgasms

This is a digest of messages posted to: Sexuality: Friends Talking.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #6: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: randomguy7 Date: Sep 23, 2009.All I can say is be yourself, but also be true to yourself.
As you can see, the ladies don't like someone that is arrogant and the like.
I'm the same age as you and I am single as well, I also don't give into what others expect of me and If I find someone then so be it. Meanwhile, I cannot force anything upon me that will most likely not work out. Always remember that we all end up the same in the long run.
Best of luck in finding inner peace and not letting outside forces mess with who you are.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #7: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: Camille1967 Date: Sep 23, 2009.I somewhat agree with the other posters, but I think there is more to it.
I want to give you the benefit of the doubt, and think that maybe what seems like "pompousness" (is that even a word? ) may just be the lack of diplomacy in trying to be _object_ive in describing yourself on a post. One thing that perplexes me is your statement of not having had a girl friend for 5 years. That would be since you were 17, now you are 22. This is a very transitional time in life: dating at 17 and at 22 are two different things. At 17 you are a child, dating it is little more than a childhood game, at 22 many people are to be considered adults, dating could be the beginning of a lifetime relationship. Even if it is not, it is still a more serious form of interaction, and I do not mean only from a sexual point of view. So here are a few questions that may help us figure out your issue.
How do you meet girls? Do you have "pick-up lines", do you rehearse a routine? Understand that if you do, it usually shows, and women are very dependent on first impressions.
How do you ask a girl on a date? Where do you take her? What do you talk about? Is the conversation mostly on yourself, or do you try to get to know her? You may want to answer here and we can all try to find your answer, or just use this as a guide to do it yourself. Good luck, and sincerely, CamilleBacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #8: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: mhtyler2 Date: Sep 23, 2009.This young man has only had 2 other posts on WebMD and all of them were on the same day. If you read them, you get a sense of a very troubled young man. I don't think he's been back since his initial posts, but I hope he seeks some professional help.Bacheloritis...Why am I single?Message #9: Bacheloritis...Why am I single? Posted by: crazyfo
ot40 Date: Sep 23, 2009.Question Donna...If he started treating them with respect would that make him a phony? It doesn't sound like it would feel natural to him.
TomDisappearing TesticlesDisappearing TesticlesMessage #3: Disappearing Testicles Posted by: luvmy2babiesmuch Date: Sep 23, 2009.my DH testicles get hard, and are up close to his penis, and i like them when they are that way,, just feel good, the only time that they really almost disappear is when he duck hunts in like 0 weather.... then, it's funny!!!Disappearing TesticlesMessage #4: Disappearing Testicles Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.luvmy2babiesmuch, you are probably too young to remember this but did you see the Jerry Seinfeld show where George gets out of a cold swimming pool and he's all embarrassed about his "shrinkage"? That episode was hysterical! Donnadon't know how to get more !?!?don't know how to get more !?!?Message #7: don't know how to get more !?!? Posted by: culligan4 Date: Sep 23, 2009.You are welcome. We are all just hear to help and I am really glad that I could help. I would definitely like to hear how it turns out. Tantalize him. Get undressed really slow in front of him. Send him a suggestive email and than play coy with him. Most men love the chase and it turns them on even more when the pursuit goes on for a while. Put a suggestive note in his lunch. Be creative, once he realizes what is going on it could bring him around. I am making a lot of assumptions here but hopefully it will work out for you. Definitely let us know how you make out.DonnaDonnaMessage #3: Donna Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.The only incident he can recall that might have done it is that he was moving furniture at work and got slammed against a wall when his co-worker dropped his end. He hasn't had any other accidents. You say that you don't ejaculate either but that you do have a few drops that stay in your penis until you squeeze it out. This sounds like to me that you are still having the orgasm? My husband neither ejaculates or has the orgasm. Do you think he could have a blockage? DonnaDonnaMessage #4: Donna Posted by: shudnobettr Date: Sep 23, 2009.HI DONNA,
I'm about the same age. The prostrate starts to get bigger on us older guys and can do strange things. I asked my uroloigist about taking forever to orgasm or not at all, he said was it was part of getting past middle age. A enlarged prostrate or taking FLOMAX can cause the semen to go back in the bladder instead of exiting the penis which is "retrograde ejaculation" and a guy still orgasms that way, but not as intense. Doesn't sound like that's what he has .
Let's just say I'm not getting the treatment your'e giving him. He is a lucky, lucky man.
snbDonnaMessage #5: Donna Posted by: bogie11 Date: Sep 23, 2009.I doubt that he has a blockage. It's probably retrograde. In my case it's just a decrease in semen plus enlarged prostate. My orgasms are as intense as ever, if not more so. It has nothing to do with the amount of semen. And my orgasm is over long before I squeeze those few drops out. I relax for a few minutes and then go to the bathroom to release what's there. Has he had his prostate checked? That's very important for men over 40 to do at least once a year.DonnaMessage #6: Donna Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.He has his prostate checked once a year and I believe that's one of the tests they will do in October. I'm going to this doctor's appointment and I'm trying to remember everything to ask th
e doctor. His short term memory has not been very good ever since he had an aneurysm 3 years ago. He's completely recovered from the aneurysm but the short term memory is not what it used to be. I can tell him something and 15 minutes later he will forget what I told him and that didn't used to happen. If he still had the orgasm even without the ejaculate, I wouldn't be too concerned but he has neither. Donnanot sleepy after sex????????????not sleepy after sex????????????Message #7: not sleepy after sex???????????? Posted by: Cat78fish Date: Sep 23, 2009.For me, it depends on how many orgasms and how intense the orgasms were. If I started off just really aroused to the point that I had several orgasms